“If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.”
Thought of the Day: Whether it is a dream, a life plan or a temporary path in life, you must identify it and pursue. If you don’t identify the pathway for yourself someone else will direct you down a path that’s best for them.
Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we help women identify what they like to do or not do through the use of our “Love Exercise”: 15 questions for 15 days. The goal is to identify what you are doing or not doing in the relationship. No answer is right or wrong. The Love Exercise usually highlights what you typically like doing or not doing in or out of a relationship. Until you know what you like and what makes you happy, you can’t truly make another happy.
Sometimes you find out the things you’re not doing in the relationship or not doing for your mate was something you never liked doing in the first place, i.e, cooking, spending time with his friends and family, sex a certain amount of time, etc. Find out who you are first and then you will find a mate that you are truly compatible with.
By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”
The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.
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